If you decide to confront your cheating spouse alone, you may want to be extra careful.  In fact, you may event want to hold off on the confrontation.  Is your spouse known for his or her temper?  If so, being alone may not be the best way to accuse your spouse of cheating on you or showing them the proof that you have.  This is particularly true if you intend to end your relationship or ask for a divorce.  If possible, have a trusted friend, family member, or police officer with you at your home.

As previously stated, you may not want to be alone when confronting a cheating spouse.  With that said, there is someone who you do not want to have with you.  That it one of your children.  Never confront a cheating spouse or even accuse them of cheating in front of your children.  It doesn’t matter if your children are newborns or teenagers.  Teens know about cheating and you do not want drag them into your mess of a marriage.  Newborns will have no clue as to what you are talking about, but the raised voices may be scary and overwhelming.

If your spouse is abusive, either verbally abusive or physically abusive, use your best judgment.  When your spouse is abusive, either verbally or physically, you will want to proceed with extreme caution.  If you intend to end your marriage due to cheating, it may be best to do so all at once.  Have a trusted friend, relative, or the police on standby.  If your spouse starts to get violent or upset with you for brining up their cheating, take action immediately.  Call for help or get out of your house and do not return until they are gone or you have the police with you.  Never put yourself in harms way when confronting a cheating spouse.

Another situation where you want to be cautious when calling out a cheating spouse is if you aren’t ready to walk out the door.  Yes, you have every right to be in your home and your spouse may be the one who has to or should leave, but that doesn’t mean the situation will go that way.  If your spouse refuses to leave your home, even just for a temporary break, are you prepared to?  What about your children, if you are a parent?  If your main goal is to end your relationship with your cheating spouse, be sure to have a set plan in place for you and your family.

Finally, reconsider confronting a cheating spouse if you do not have any proof.  Have you seen your spouse on a date with another?  Have you seen the phone or credit card bills with suspicious or out of the ordinary entries?  If you haven’t, it may be best to wait until you have proof.  Your spouse may completely deny having an affair.  As a worse case scenario, they may not even be cheating on you!

I smoke, which isn’t a good habit I admit but I don’t smoke in the house, I always stand in the garden.

I have just been outside (11pm 2nd November 2008), as I was stood there in the dark I heard a womans voice, she was talking  on her cell phone (I wasn’t eaves dropping she was talking in a normal voice no further than 30 feet away), she’s one of my neighbors and she has just met a guy at the local bar TODAY!

She said to the guy on the phone that she’d had a great time and felt like she was a teenager again. She also described her husband as a lazy S.O.B who would probably be in the house watching TV and probably wouldn’t notice her come home anyway. She went on to ask the guy on the phone if he was married (two marriages to wreck if he is), she also asked him how many kids he has and their ages…

She was so happy about having sex with him in his car (her actual words were “I hope I didn’t moan too loud in the car, If anyone had seen us they would have thought we were making a porn film”) that she wanted to know when she could see him again.

She then went discussed when her husband was working andwhat they could do next time they met.

All of this conversation took place in the middle of the street only 100 yards away from her home…

This is a prime example of a cheating wife, she couldn’t wait to talk to him again and was so open about it that she’s certain to get caught.

Checking her mobile and redialing the last number or checking her texts when she’s not around would be a great idea (if he has any clue)

Check out – Cheating Wife Cell Phone

Women don’t always store the name of the person she’s cheating with in her phone by their name, most women will have a friend, for example her friend is called Sue-Ann, she may have 2 Sue-Ann’s  on her phone but one of them has a symbol after the name, this is probably his number. Once you’ve had a look at some of these symbols you should take a look at the bottom of this page for a great resource for catching him out with HER cell phone.

Women are like children when it comes to cell phones, they have a language all of their own.

Here is a list (long list) of text chat abbreviations:

Abbreviation    Meaning

Numbers & Characters
?    I have a question
?    I don’t understand what you mean
?4U    I have a question for you
;S    Gentle warning, like “Hmm? what did you say?”
^^    Meaning read line or message above
<3    Meaning sideways heart (love, friendship)
<33    Meaning heart (more 3s is a bigger heart)
@TEOTD    At the end of the day
.02    My (or your) two cents worth
121    One-to-one (private chat initiation)
143    I love you
14AA441    One for all, and all for one
19    Zero hand (online gaming)
20    Meaning ‘location’
1DR    I wonder
20    Meaning ‘location’
2G2BT    Too good to be true
2MI    Too much information
2MOR    Tomorrow
404    I don’t know
411    Meaning ‘information’
420    Lets get high
420    Meaning “Marijuana”
4COL    For crying out loud
4EAE    Forever and ever
4NR    Foreigner
^5    High-five
555    Sobbing, crying. (Mandarin Chinese txt msgs)
55555    Crying your eyes out (Mandarin Chinese txt msgs)
6Y    Sexy
86    Over
88    Bye-bye (Mandarin Chinese txt msgs)
9    Parent is watching

A
A3    Anytime, anywhere, anyplace
AA    As above
AAF    As a matter of fact
AAK    Asleep at keyboard
AAMOF    As a matter of fact
AAMOI    As a matter of interest
AAP    Always a pleasure
AAR    At any rate
AAS    Alive and smiling
AASHTA    As always, Sheldon has the answer (Bike mechanic Sheldon Brown)
AATK    Always at the keyboard
ABT    About
ABT2    Meaning About to
ABTA    Meaning Good-bye (signoff)
ACD    ALT / CONTROL / DELETE
ACK    Acknowledge
ADAD    Another day, another dollar
ADD    Address
ADDY    Address
ADN    Any day now
ADR    Address
AEAP    As early as possible
AFC    Away from computer
AFAIK    As far as I know
AFAP    As far as possible
AFJ    April Fool’s joke
AFK    Away from keyboard
AFPOE    A fresh pair of eyes
AH    At home
AIGHT    Alright
AIR    As I remember
AISB    As it should be
AISB    As I said before
AISI    As I see it
AITR    Adult in the room
AKA    Also known as
ALCON    All concerned
AML    All my love
AOM    Age of majority
AOM    Age of Mythology (online gaming)
AOTA    All of the above
AOYP    Angel on your pillow
APAC    All praise and credit
AQAP    As quick (or quiet) as possible
ASIG    And so it goes
ASAP    As soon as possible
A/S/L    Age/sex/location
ASL    Age/sex/location
ASLA    Age/sex/location/availability
AT    At your terminal
ATEOTD    At the end of the day
ATM    At the moment
ATSITS    All the stars in the sky
ATSL    Along the same line (or lines)
AWC    After awhile crocodile
AWOL    Away without leaving
AYDY    Are you done yet?
AYEC    At your earliest convenience
AYOR    At your own risk
AYSOS    Are you stupid or something?
AYS    Are you serious?
AYT    Are you there?
AYTMTB    And you’re telling me this because
AYV    Are you vertical?
AZN    Asian

B
B    Back
B8    Bait (person teased or joked with, or under-aged person/teen)
B/F    Boyfriend
B/G    Background (personal information request)
B4    Before
B4N     Bye for now
BAG    Busting a gut
BAK    Back at keyboard
BAS    Big ‘butt’ smile
BAU    Business as usual
BAY    Back at ya
BB    Be back
BBC    Big bad challenge
BBIAF    Be back in a few
BBIAM    Be back in a minute
BBIAS    Be back in a sec
BBL    Be back later
BBN    Bye, bye now
BBQ    Barbeque, “Ownage”, shooting score/frag (online gaming)
BBS    Be back soon
BBT    Be back tomorrow
BC    Because
B/C    Because
BC    Be cool
BCNU    Be seeing you
BCOS    Because
BD    Big deal
BDAY    Birthday
B-DAY    Birthday
BDN    Big darn number
BEN    Big evil grin
BF    Boyfriend
BFAW    Best friend at work
BF2    Battlefield 2 (online gaming)
BF    Best friend
BFF    Best friends forever
BFFL    Best friends for life
BFD    Big freaking deal
BFG    Big  freaking grin
BFFN    Best friend for now
BFN    Bye for now
BG    Big grin
BGWM    Be gentle with me
BHL8    Be home late
BIB    Boss is back
BIBO    Beer in, beer out
BIF    Before I forget
BIL    Brother in law
BION    Believe it or not
BIOYA    Blow it out your a**
BIOYN    Blow it out your nose
BISFLATM    Boy, I sure feel like a turquoise monkey! (unverified)
BLNT    Better luck next time
BM    Bite me
BME    Based on my experience
BM&Y    Between me and you
BOL    Best of luck
BOLO    Be on the look out
BOOMS    Bored out of my skull
BOYF    Boyfriend
BPLM    Big person little mind
BRB    Be right back
BRD    Bored
BRT    Be right there
BT    Bite this
BTA    But then again
BTDT    Been there, done that
BTW    By the way
BUBU    Slang term for the most beautiful of women
BWL    Bursting with laughter
BYOB    Bring your own beer
BYOC    Bring your own computer
BYOP    Bring your own paint (paintball)
BYTM    Better you than me

C
C&G    Chuckle & grin
CB    Coffee break
CB    Chat break
CB    Crazy *biatch*
CD9    Code 9, Meaning “parents are around”
CIAO    Good-bye (Italian word)
CICO    Coffee in, coffee out
CID    Crying in disgrace
CID    Consider it done
CLAB    Crying like a baby
CM    Call me
CMAP    Cover my a** partner (online gaming)
CMIIW    Correct me if I’m wrong
CMON    Come on
CNP    Continued (in) next post
COB    Close of business
COS    Because
C/P    Cross post
CP    Chat post (or continue in IM)
CR8    Create
CRB    Come right back
CRBT     Crying really big tears
CRS     Can’t remember stuff
CSG    Chuckle, snicker, grin
CSL    Can’t stop laughing
CSS    Counter-Strike Source (online gaming)
CT    Can’t talk
CTC    Care to chat?
CTHU    Cracking the *heck* up
CU    See you too
CU    See you
CU2    See you
CUA    See you around
CUL    See you later
CULA    See you later alligator
CUL8R    See you later
CWOT    Complete waste of time
CWYL    Chat with you later
CYA    See you
CYAL8R    See you later
CYE    Check your e-mail
CYEP    Close your eyes partner (online gaming)
CYO    See you online

D
DBAU    Doing business as usual
DD    Dear (or Darling) daughter
DEGT    Dear (or Darling) daughter
DF    Don’t even go there
DGAF    Don’t give a *freak*
DGTG    Dear (or Darling) husband
DH    Don’t go there girlfriend
DIIK    Darned if I know
DIKU    Do I know you?
DIS    Did I say?
DKDC    on’t know, don’t care
D/L    Download
DL    Download
DL    Down low
DLBBB    Don’t let (the) bed bugs bite
DLTBBB    Don’t let the bed bugs bite
DM    Doesn’t matter
DN    Down
d00d    Dude
DP    Display Picture (Yahoo Messenger Chat)
DPS    Damage per second (online gaming)
DQMOT    Don’t quote me on this
DS    Dear (or Darling) son
DTS    Don’t think so
DUPE    Duplicate
DV8    Deviate
DW    Dear (or Darling) wife
DWF    Divorced white female
DWM    Divorced white male
DYOR    Do your own research (common stock market chat slang)

E
E    Ecstasy
E1    Everyone
EBKAC    Error between keyboard and chair
ED    Erase display
EF4T    Effort
EG    Evil grin
EIP    Editing in progress
EMA    E-mail address
EMFBI    Excuse me for butting in
EMSG    E-mail message
ENUF    Enough
EOD    End of day
EOL    End of life
EOM    End of message
ES    Erase screen
EVA    Ever
EVO    Evolution
EZY    Easy

F
F    Meaning female
F2F    Face to face
F2F    Face to face
F2P    Free to play (online gaming)
FBF    Fat boy food (e.g. pizza, burgers, fries)
FBM    Fine by me
FC    Fingers crossed
FC’INGO    For crying out loud
FFS    For ‘freak’ sakes
FICCL    Frankly I couldn’t care a less
FIIK    *Freaked* if I know
FIIOOH    Forget it, I’m out of here
FIMH    Forever in my heart
FISH    First in, still here
FITB    Fill in the blank
FOMC    Falling off my chair
FOMCL    Falling off my chair laughing
FRT    For real though
FTBOMH    From the bottom of my heart
FTW    For the win
FUBAR    Fouled up beyond all recognition
FUBB    Fouled up beyond belief
FWIW    For what it’s worth
FYEO    For your eyes only
FYA    For your amusement
FYI    For your information

G
G    Grin
G    Giggle
G/F    Girlfriend
G2CU     Good to see you
G2G     Got to go
G2R     Got to run
G9    Genius
GA     Go ahead
GAL    Get a life
GAS    Got a second?
GB     Goodbye
GBU    God bless you
GDR    Grinning, ducking, and running
GD/R    Grinning, ducking, and running
GFI    Go for it
GF    Girl friend
GFN    Gone for now
GG     Gotta Go
GG     Good Game (online gaming)
GG     Brother (Mandarin Chinese txt msgs)
GGP    Got to go pee
GH    Good hand (online gaming)
GIAR    Give it a rest
GIC    Gift in crib (online gaming)
GIGO    Garbage in, garbage out
GIRL    Guy in real life
GJ    Good job
GL    Good luck
GL/HF    Good luck, have fun
GLNG    Good luck next game
GMBA    Giggling my butt off
GMTA    Great minds think alike
GN    Good night
GNSD    Good night, sweet dreams
GOI    Get over it
GOL    Giggling out loud
GR8    Great
GRATZ    Congratulations
GRL    Girl
GRWG    Get right with God
GR&D    Grinning, running and ducking
GT    Good try
GTFO    Get the *freak* out
GTG    Got to go
GTRM    Going to read mail
GTSY    Great (or good) to see you

H
HAU    How about you?
H&K    Hugs & kisses
H2CUS    Hope to see you soon
H8    Hate
HAGN    Have a good night
HAGO    Have a good one
HAND    Have a nice day
HB    Hurry back
HBU    How about you?
HF    Have fun
HHIS    Head hanging in shame
HL    Half Life (online gaming)
HOAS    Hold on a second
HP    Hit points / Health points (online gaming)
HRU    How are you?
HTH    Hope this helps
HUB    Head up butt
HV    Have

I
IAC    In any case
IAE    In any event
IANAL    I am not a lawyer
IB    I’m back
IB    I’m back
IC    I see
ICAM    I couldn’t agree more
ICBW    It could be worse
ICEDI    I can’t even discuss it
IDK    I don’t know
IDTS    I don’t think so
IDUNNO    I don’t know
IG2R     I got to run
IGHT    I got high tonight
IGN    I (I’ve) got nothing
IGP     I got to (go) pee
IIRC    If I remember correctly
IK    I know
IKR    I know, right?
ILBL8    I’ll be late
ILU    I love you
ILUM    I love you man
ILY    I love you
IM    Instant message
IMAO    In my arrogant opinion
IMHO    In my humble opinion
ImL    (in Arial font) Means I love you (a way of using the American sign language in text)
IMNSHO    In my not so humble opinion
IMO    In my opinion
IMS    I am sorry
IMSB    I am so bored
IMTM    I am the man
IMU    I miss u (you)
INAL    I’m not a lawyer
IOMH    In over my head
IOW    In other words
IRL    In real life
IRMC    I rest my case
ISLY    I still love you
ITYK    I thought you knew
IUSS    If you say so
IWALU    I will always love you
IYKWIM    If you know what I mean
IYO    In your opinion
IYSS    If you say so

J
j00    You
j00r    Your
JAC    Just a sec
JAM    Just a minutes
JFF    Just for fun
JFGI    Just *freaking* Google it
JIC    Just in case
JJA     Just joking around
JK    Just kidding
JMO    Just my opinion
JP    Just playing
JTLYK    Just to let you know
JW    Just wondering

K
K    Okay
KK    Knock, knock
K8T    Katie
k/b    Keyboard
KB    Keyboard
KB    Kick butt (online gaming)
KEWL    Cool
KEYA    I will key you later
KEYME    Key me when you get in
KFY    Kiss for you
KISS    Keep it simple, stupid
KIT    Keep in touch
KOC    Kiss on cheek
KOL    Kiss on lips
KOTC    Kiss on the cheek
KOTL    Kiss on the lips
KNIM    Know what I mean?
KPC    Keeping parents clueless
KS    Kill then steal (online gaming)

Abbreviation    Meaning
L
l33t    Leet, meaning ‘elite’
L8R    Later
L8RG8R    Later, gator
LD    Later, dude / Long distance
LEMENO    Let me know
LERK    Leaving easy reach of keyboard
LFG    Looking for group (online gaming)
LFG    Looking for guard (online gaming)
LGH    Lets get high
LHM    Lord help me
LHO    Laughing head off
LIC    Like I care
LIK    Meaning liquor
LMAO    Laughing my a** off
LMBO    Laughing my butt off
LMFAO    Laughing my freaking a** off
LMIRL    Lets meet in real life
LMK    Let me know
LMNK    Leave my name out
LOL    Laughing out loud
LOL    Laugh out loud
LOL    Lots of love
LOLH    Laughing out loud hysterically
LOLO    Lots of love
LOTR    Lord of The Rings (online gaming)
LQTM    Laughing quietly to myself
LSHMBH    Laugh so hard my belly hurts
LTNS    Long time no see
LTS    Laughing to self
LULZ    Slang for lol
LWOS    Laughing without smiling
LY    Love ya
LYLAS    Love you like a sis
LYSO    Love you so much

M
M8    Mate
MEGO    My eyes glaze over
MEH    Meaning a “shrug” or shrugging shoulders
MEHH    Meaning a “sigh” or sighing
MFI    Mad for it
MIRL    Meet in real life
MLM    Meaning give the middle finger
MM    Sister (Mandarin Chinese txt msgs)
MMK    Meaning okay? (as a question)
MNC    Mother nature calls
MorF    Male or female?
MOOS    Member of the opposite sex
MOS    Mother over shoulder
MOSS    Member of same sex
MSG    Message
MTF    More to follow
MTFBWU    May the force be with you
MUAH    Multiple unsuccessful attempts (at/to) humor
MUSM    Miss you so much
MYOB    Mind your own business

N
n00b    Newbie
N1    Nice one
NADT    Not a darn thing
NALOPKT    Not a lot of people know that
NBD    No big deal
NBFAB    No bad for a beginner (online gaming)
NC    Nice crib (online gaming)
NE    Any
NE1    Anyone
NFM    None for me / Not for me
NFS    Need for Speed (online gaming)
NFS    Not for sale
NH    Nice hand (online gaming)
NIFOC    Naked in front of computer
NIMBY    Not in my back yard
NLT    No later than
NM    Nothing much / Never mind
NMH    Not much here
NMU    Not much, you?
NO1    No one
NOOB    Meaning someone who is bad at (online) games
NOYB    None of your business
NP    No problem
NQT    Newly qualified teacher
NR    Nice roll (online gaming)
NRN    No response/reply necessary
NS    Nice score (online gaming)
NSA    No strings attached
NSFW    Not safe for work
NSISR    Not sure if spelled right
NT    Nice try
NVM    Never mind
NW    No way
NWO    No way out

O
O    Opponent (online gaming)
OB    Oh baby
OB    Oh brother
OIC    Oh, I see
OL    Old lady
OM    Old man
OMDB    Over my dead body
OMFG    Oh my *freaking* God
OMG    Oh my God
OMGYG2BK    Oh my God, you got to be kidding
OMW    On my way
ONL    Online
OO    Over and out
OOC    Out of character
OOH    Out of here
OOTD    One of these days
OOTO    Out of the office
OP    On phone
ORLY    Oh really?
OTB    Off to bed
OTFL    On the floor laughing
OTL    Out to lunch
OTOH    On the other hand
OTT    Over the top
OTTOMH    Off the top of my head
OTW    Off to work
OVA    Over

P
P    Partner (online gaming)
P2P    Parent to parent
P2P    Peer to peer
P2P    Pat to play (online gaming)
P911    Parents coming into room alert
PAW    Parents are watching
PC    Player character (online gaming)
PCM    Please call me
PDH    Pretty darn happy
PDS    Please don’t shoot
PDQ    Pretty darn quick
PEEPS    People
PITA    Pain in the *butt*
PKMN    Pokemon (online gaming)
PLMK    Please let me know
PLS    Please
PLU    People like us
PLZ    Please
PM    Private Message
PMFI    Pardon me for interrupting
PMFJI    Pardon me for jumping in
PMSL    Pee myself laughing
POAHF    Put on a happy face
POS    Parent over shoulder
POV    Point of view
POV    Privately owned vehicle (originally used to differentiate an individual’s vehicle from a military vehicle)
PPL    People
PROLLY    Probably
PRON    Meaning pornography
PRT    Party
PRW    People/parents are watching
PSOS    Parent standing over shoulder
PTL    Praise the Lord
PTMM    Please tell me more
PUG    Pick up group (online gaming)
PWN    Meaning “own”
PXT    Please explain that
PU    That stinks!
PZ    Peace

Q
Q    Queue
QFE    Question for everyone
QIK    Quick
QL    Quit laughing
QQ (qq)    Meaning “crying eyes”
QSL    Reply
QSO    Conversation
QT    Cutie
QTPI    Cutie pie

R
RL    Real life
RLY    Really
RME    Rolling my eyes
RMLB    Read my lips baby
RMMM    Read my mail man
ROFL    Rolling on floor laughing
ROFLCOPTER    Rolling on floor laughing and spinning around
ROFLMAO    Rolling on the floor, laughing my *butt* off
ROTFL    Rolling on the floor laughing
ROTFLUTS    Rolling on the floor laughing unable to speak
RS    Runescape (online gaming)
RSN    Real soon now
RTBS    Reason to be single
RTFM    Read the *freaking* manual
RU    Are you?
RUOK    Are you okay?

S
S2R    Send to receive (meaning send me your picture to get mine)
SAL    Such a laugh
SBT    Sorry ’bout that
SC    Stay cool
SETE    Smiling Ear-to-Ear
SFAIK    So far as I know
SH    Same here
SHID    Slapping head in disgust
SICNR    Sorry, I could not resist
SIG2R     Sorry, I got to run
SIHTH    Stupidity is hard to take
SIS    Snickering in silence
SIT    Stay in touch
SLAP    Sounds like a plan
SMHID    Scratching my head in disbelief
SNAFU    Situation normal all fouled up
SNERT    Snot nosed egotistical rude teenager
SO    Significant other
SOL    Sooner or later
SOMY    Sick of me yet?
SorG    Straight or Gay?
SOT    Short of time
SOTMG    Short of time, must go
SOWM    Someone with me
SPK    Speak
SRSLY    Seriously
SPST    Same place, same time
SPTO    Spoke to
SRY    Sorry
SS    So sorry
SSDD    Same stuff, different day
SSIF    So stupid it’s funny
SSINF    So stupid it’s not funny
ST&D    Stop texting and drive
STFU    Shut the *freak* up
STR8    Straight
STW    Search the Web
SUITM    See you in the morning
SUL    See you later
SUP    What’s up?
SWAK    Sent (or sealed) with a kiss
SWALK    Sealed (or sealed) with a loving kiss
SWAT    Scientific wild *butt* guess
SWL    Screaming with laughter
SWMBO    She who must be obeyed. Meaning wife or partner
SYL    See you later
SYS    See you soon

T
T+    Think positive
TA    Thanks a lot
TAFN    That’s all for now
TAM    Tomorrow a.m.
TAU    Thinking about u (you)
TBAG    Process of disgracing a corpse, taunting a fragged/killed player (online gaming)
TBC    To be continued
TBD    To be determined
TBH    To be honest
TC    Take care
TCB    Take care of business
TCOY    Take care of yourself
TD    Tower defense (online gaming)
TDTM    Talk dirty to me
TGIF    Thank God it’s Friday
THX    Thanks
THNX    Thanks
THNQ    Thank-you
TIA    Thanks in advance
TIAD    Tomorrow is another day
TIC    Tongue-in-cheek
TILIS    Tell it like it is
TLK2UL8R    Talk to you later
TMB    Text me back
TMI    Too much information
TMOT    Trust me on this
TMTH    Too much to handle
TMWFI    Take my word for it
TNSTAAFL    There’s no such thing as a free lunch
TNT    Til next time
TOJ    Tears of joy
TOY    Thinking of you
TPM    Tomorrow p.m.
TPTB    The powers that be
TSNF    That’s so not fair
TSTB    The sooner, the better
TTFN    Ta ta for now
TTLY    Totally
TTTT    These things take time
TTYAFN    Talk to you awhile from now
TTYL    Talk to you later
TTYS    Talk to you soon
TU    Thank you
TY    Thank you
TYS    Told you so
TYT     Take your time
TYSO     hank you so much
TYVM    Thank you very much

U
^URS    Up yours
UCMU    You crack me up
UDI    Unidentified drinking injury (meaning bruise, scratch, ache and so on)
UFN    Until further notice
UGTBK    You’ve got to be kidding
UKTR    You know that’s right
UL    Upload
UR    Your / You’re
URH    You are hot (U R Hot)
URSKTM    You are so kind to me
URTM    You are the man
UT    Unreal Tournament (online gaming)
UV    Unpleasant visual
UW    You’re welcome

V
VEG    Very evil grin
VFF    Very freaking funny
VFM    Value for money
VGC    Very good condition
VGH    Very good hand (online gaming)
VIP    Very important person
VM    Voice mail
VN    Very nice
VNH    Very nice hand (online gaming)
VRY    Very
VSC    Very soft chuckle
VSF    Very sad face
VWD    Very well done (online gaming)

W
W@    What?
W/    With
W3    WWW (Web address)
W8    Wait
WAH    Working at home
WAJ    What a jerk
WAM    Wait a minute
WAN2TLK    Want to talk
WAREZ    meaning pirated (illegally gained) software
WAS    Wait a second
WAS    Wild *butt* guess
WAWA    Where are we at?
WAYF    Where are you from?
W/B    Write back
WB    Welcome back
WBS    Write back soon
WC    Welcome
WC    Who cares
WCA    Who cares anyway
W/E    Whatever
W/END    Weekend
WE    Whatever
WH5    Who, what, when, where, why
WIBNI    Wouldn’t it be nice if
WDALYIC    Who died and left you in charge
WDYK    What do you know?
WDYT    What do you think?
WIIFM    What’s in it for me?
WISP    Winning is so pleasurable
WITP    What is the point?
WITW    What in the world
WIU    Wrap it up
WK    Week
WKD    Weekend
WRT    With regard to
W/O    Without
WOMBAT    Waste of money, brains and time
WOW    World of Warcraft (online gaming)
WRK    Work
WRUD    What are you doing?
WTB    Wanted to buy
WTF    What the *freak* ?
WTG    Way to go
WTGP    Want to go private (talk out of public chat area)
WTH    What the heck?
WTM    Who’s the man?
WU?    What’s up?
WUCIWUG    What you see is what you get
WUF?    Where are you from?
WWJD    What would Jesus do?
WWNC    Will wonders never cease
WWYC    Write when you can
WYCM    Will you call me?
WYD    What (are) you doing?
WYGAM    When you get a minute
WYHAM    When you have a minute
WYLEI    When you least expect it
WYSIWYG    What you see is what you get

X
X    Kiss
XD    Meaning “really hard laugh” (where D is a smiley mouth)
XD    Meaning a “devilish smile”
XOXOXO    Hugs & Kisses
XLNT    Excellent

Y
Y?    Why?
Y2K    You’re too kind
YA    Your
YARLY    Ya, really?
YBIC    Your brother in Christ
YBS    You’ll be sorry
YCLIU    You can look it up
YCMU    You crack me up
YF    Wife
YG    Young gentleman
YGTBKM    You’ve got to be kidding me
YGG    You go girl
YIU    Yes, I understand
YKWYCD    You know what you can do
YL    Young lady
YMMV    Your mileage may vary
YNK    You never know
YR    Your
YR    Yeah right
YRYOCC    You’re running your own cuckoo clock
YSIC    Your sister in Christ
YSYD    Yeah sure you do
YT    You there?
YTG    You’re the greatest
YW    You’re welcome
YWHNB    Yes, we have no bananas

Z
Z    Zero
Z    Z’s are calling (meaning going to bed/sleep)
ZOT    Zero tolerance
ZUP    Meaning “What’s up?”
ZZZZ    Sleeping (or bored)
As you can see guys, you don’t need a phd to follow her text messages, just this sheet BUT please be aware – people do tend to make up some of their own stuff to go with this.

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An unfaithful husband, cheating wife, any kind of disloyal partner, is an ugly prospect. And that feeling of being betrayed by someone we thought we could trust more than anyone else is one of the worst. People who discover their partners have been unfaithful to them go through a hurricane of different emotions – anger, sadness, shame, dejection, sometimes even relief. It’s a grieving process, not of a person that’s died, but of a relationship and level of trust that’s instantly disintegrated. In short, it sucks.

But before you can begin “grieve” that loss of trust, or simply throw caution to the wind and ditch your partner for good, you need to make absolutely sure your reaction will be 100% warranted. You need to know without doubt whether your lover has, in fact, double-crossed you by looking for, finding, and partaking in, an affair.

The only guaranteed way of knowing this, aside from finding damning physical evidence or seeing the affair with your own eyes (both pretty rare), is by hearing a confession straight from the horse’s mouth, by communicating your suspicions with your partner and listening to what they have to say – however heartbreaking or relieving their response might be. But before you take that big step, there are a few simpler and smaller steps you can take to make the whole process, the whole “investigation” and confrontation of your partner, easier and more factually accurate.

The first thing you should do is look for some of the most common signs/groups of signs people produce when they cheat. I’ve listed 3 of them below. Read over and think about each and carefully consider if they apply to you, your partner and your relationship.

1. Changes in sex drive and sexual behaviour.

Sex is almost always an integral part of a happy and healthy relationship between two people. So when one of the two, regardless of whether it’s the guy or the girl, begins to cheat, it doesn’t come as any surprise that changes in the way they feel about having sex with their partner can be brought about. There are two main ways these changes can manifest themselves. When the cheater initially begins their affair, they may – out of guilt and in an effort to avoid the newly formed affair being rumbled – actually increase the amount of attention they pay their real partners in bed. Conversely, and usually a little while after the affair has begun, the cheater may appear to have a loss of sex drive. They, for some reason, seem to not want to be intimate with you as much as they used to. Once again, this can be attributed to guilt, but more often it’s to do with a fear they’ll reveal their infidelity through they way they behave before, during and after having sex with you.

2. Peculiar changes in habits & schedule.

When people cheat, they invariably change their behaviour and/or habits in some way, small or large. The reason they cannot avoid these alterations is because, no matter how infrequently or secretly they see the person they’re having an affair with, they MUST – at some point or another – go out of their way to do so (and thereby break or change habits and behaviour). So, look for recent and pronounced modifications in the times they come home/leave the house (and whether the changed times ‘repeat’ weekly), increased usage of the phone or computer for no obvious/innocent reason, and other differences in the way your partner acts and behaves. You know your partner’s old habits and ways of living better than anyone, so draw from that knowledge to compare how they might have changed them and to decide if the changes are to be taken as possible indications of betrayal.

3. Miscellaneous indicators of infidelity.

Lastly, there’s the group of infidelity indicators that don’t fit in any other box or under any other title. They’re the things you notice, question and cannot innocently explain away. They’re the things you spot but almost choose to forget because you’re so unsure of what they may or may not mean and whether, ultimately, they are true signs that your partner is cheating on you with someone else. Here are just a couple of miscellaneous indications of infidelity:

A. Your partner no longer seems to get angry with you when in the past they always seemed to be picking a fight or getting worked up over any tiny issue. Cheaters often ‘let their partners off’ because they want as little confrontation (which could lead to a discovery on your part) as possible.

B. She or he frequently shifts the focus onto you. Cheaters often asks their partners more questions about how their day went, how they’re feeling, etc, again, to shift the attention away from them and their guilt.

Remember, when you suspect your partner may be cheating, always take the smaller steps – by looking for the kinds of subtle signs listed above – before taking the biggest step of all: confronting them. Doing so will give you the very best chance of a happy, or at least a more manageable, final outcome.

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